Fell in love with teachers or big feelings in a small school. Fell in love with a teacher

It so happened, but modern times dictate new views on the relationship of men and women. It is these new views that lead to the fact that   romance between teacher and student  soon everything can be attributed to the norm. While this state of affairs has not become the norm, many students have a rather acute question: "What should I do if I fell in love with a teacher."

One thing is certain - but do not forget about the criminal code. Be sure that no matter how strong your love is, the teacher is likely to cool all your ardor. This is because he can be fired from school at best or start a criminal case for child molestation in the worst case. Remember that you as a schoolgirl are primarily a minor, and relations with minors are prosecuted by criminal liability. Therefore, the only reaction from the adult teacher was, is and will be a very tough thrashing that will make you think about learning, not about love.

Although, based on experience, I can say that if it is really love and it is supported by reciprocity, then it can wait 2-3 years until you become an adult. His own love for teacher  you can show in different ways: screaming at every corner that you love and want him, or you can just become an excellent student in his subject, this will be good for him and it won’t hurt you. Moreover, if you become the best student in his subject, then you will have the opportunity to spend more time together without compromising his reputation, as he will prepare you for olympiads and other subject competitions.

It is worth remembering that if you fell in love with a teacher, then you need to take care not only about your, perhaps, children's “I want”, but also about the feelings of the person you love. Your excessive obsession and ambiguity will only harm his reputation among colleagues, which over time can lead to the fact that he will transfer to another school or even quit. Think about whether you really want this result.

In addition, many young teachers and teachers can be married. The fact that he is married should also make you take a sober look at your love. Many teachers, when they come to school, already have families or stable relationships, some even have children. Are you ready to believe that a successful man is able to leave his family in order to wait until you reach adulthood? Yes, I understand that you are younger and perhaps more attractive than his wife, who has already given birth to a child, but do not forget that many men are primarily looking for stability, which makes them appreciate what they already have.

I understand that she is very categorical, but even if you are 14 or 15 years old you should not forget that for the sake of completeness of feelings, feelings should be mutual. If your chosen one does not feel the same for you, then you should not waste time on him. If love is mutual, then it will not be difficult for both of you to wait a couple of years.

My beloved man is Teacher. Love him. My life story.

Our age difference is five years. I'm fifteen. He is twenty. I like him, I love him. She fell in love so much that she decided to conquer it to the end. I wore short skirts, the deepest neckline. Mom and Dad did not forbid, because they did not see what I went to school in. They wanted to call their parents to school, but they did not call everyone. They understood that I did not want to hide my youth and beauty under a pile of clothes.

I fell in love with a chemistry teacher.

is he  - chemistry teacher. Never loved this item. Yes, and did not understand him plainly. Therefore, I did not have to look for a reason to see Pasha not only in the lessons. His name is Pavel Pavlovich. But I call him Pasha. Not in the open, of course, but for myself. About love for the teacher, I did not spread to everyone. So that no one let out rumors. Only Vera and Katya knew about love - my two faithful girlfriends. They were checked for years. They checked - I believed. They were not surprised, because they already understood everything.

He looked at me and blushed like a boy. His voice trembled when our eyes met. He carefully “ran away” from my smiles. My patience is over. I decided that I need to act, and not suffer in anticipation of the unknown.

I persuaded my friends to go to his teacher's room. They did not give consent for a long, long time, as they were shy or experienced something like that. They agreed only when I promised to take offense at them before graduation. Frightened .... An unfair method, but it was the first that came to my mind.

We went up to the second floor, went to the cherished door, looked at each other. I grabbed the doorknob. I entered. She entered without knocking. I, from excitement, completely forgot to knock. He quietly checked notebooks. The girls quietly followed me.

We said hello. And again, I saw that he was blushing. He admired my pantyhose (small net) and my silk skirt, bought not so long ago. I will not lie that I ran around the shops to dress specifically for him. I just liked what I bought. I like to buy not only the clothes that suit me. But I also love to buy one in which I feel comfortable and confident.

Katya was not taken aback. She told Pasha that I really want to go to him for tutoring or for extra classes, because I don’t understand chemistry well, and I am embarrassed to admit it. He asked to leave us. The girls went out into the corridor. My heart was beating very hard. He looked at me, blushing, and dropped his eyes on my whole body. He said. What awaits me tomorrow at one o’clock. I knew that he was married. I knew that he has a small child. He only reassured me that he said: “They left. Their week will not be. ” How happy I was! I ran out and kissed my friends in a friendly manner. It was noticeable how happy they were for me. I counted the minutes before the meeting. I barely sat out all the lessons, but did not skip a single one.

Pasha did not tell me the address, because I already knew it by heart. I ran to him, never ceasing to dream. I was almost hit by a car. How the driver scolded me! I understand him. But he doesn’t mean me. I did not ask for understanding. I asked only to leave me, to give way to my beloved. I ran as if I always had exceptionally good grades in physical education.

I called the intercom, flew into the staircase, ran to the elevator. And I was not at all upset that he did not work. Pasa lived on the twelfth floor, but I ran to him in an instant, tripping over each step. Pashka was waiting for me at the doorstep. I restrained myself. And so I wanted to rush to his neck ....

He invited me to enter the apartment. He helped me take off my blouse and carried me into the room. I didn’t expect, but he began to kiss me. Caress, hug. How good I was with him! I dreamed that these moments did not stop. Was there something between us? Yes it was! I wanted him to be my first man in an intimate sense. That did not stop me. That he is married. He was not stopped by my minor age. We had a gorgeous night. I will never forget her! The first night of love is unforgettable. Our heavenly morning interrupted a cell phone call. His wife called to inform her that she would be home soon.

I did not know that he would be so rude to me. He pulled a blanket from me, shouted that I dressed faster than the wind, and rolled off. I did not pay attention either to my tears or to a misunderstanding in my eyes.

I left. He did not even kiss goodbye. The next morning I did not go to school. After - too. I had to take a certificate from a doctor that I was sick so that absenteeism was not “popped”. I don't give a damn about these lessons!

Girlfriends advise the guy to find himself. Why do I need some guy if Pasha is dear to me? I understand that he used me, taking advantage of my feelings, but I still love .... I would like to stay with him again. Young fool! By the way, Veerka hinted that I would report him to the police. I definitely won’t do that. I myself wanted to be in close relationship with him. Revenge is not an assistant. Revenge can alleviate the situation only in theory, but not in practice.

I know: he will not be completely mine.  But I'm glad what happened between us. His wife does not learn anything from me. It painfully pains me, but to substitute him, thereby destroying his family, I did not have and will not have plans.

I moved to another school. It's easier for me to be far than close. It seems to me that he was upset. Well, and let yourself! He will also regret that he did this to me. But I will not return to school or to him.

What to do with love?  Forgetting is the way out. But it’s so difficult ... .. First love is a bitter chocolate. With a touch of salinity of tears. I tried it. I don’t wish anyone like me. I'm fifteen. Life is already broken. There is no desire to start a new one. I do not need anything. Neither life, nor heart, nor body, nor soul. He took everything away, leaving me pathetic copies of me as before. He does not want to return me real.

Ata classmate is following me. But he is a friend. I love Pasha. Of course, I’m not talking about this to a friend, but he will tell me when he will be angry and angry. My classmate and I will not have anything. He needs to grow up a little bit. Yes, and I'm embarrassed to meet him. He is a baby! Let him think about the future. I do not want to bother him, although he always repeats that I do not bother him.

Love is a sublime feeling. It can occur in absolutely everyone. Social status does not matter. But what if you fall in love with a teacher? Today, many men choose the profession of teacher. There are cases when a high school student falls in love with a teacher. Men are in every teaching staff. And not every one of them resembles a “rude physical education”, whom the head teacher and their parents constantly complain about. It can be a well-read teacher, with whom it is interesting to talk on many topics. It is precisely in such and such teachers that students most often fall in love. However, in the vast majority of cases, schoolgirls take ordinary affection for love.

What can cause a falling in love with a teacher?

• The absence of a father. The young lady on a subconscious level feels a reliable shoulder.
• All kinds of complexes. Many girls are worried about a lack of peer attention. They consider themselves "ugly duckling." Therefore, it is not surprising that a schoolgirl falls in love with a teacher. She seeks recognition from a teacher who appreciates not only external beauty, but also spiritual qualities.

If you fell in love with a teacher

When a young lady falls in love with someone, she does everything possible so that the object of love draws her attention. However, she is afraid to be ridiculed. This phenomenon is quite natural. If you want to have a close relationship with the person you like, then you must answer some questions:

1. Can you be happy if you make another woman miserable? In this case, we are talking about the teacher’s wife. Do not lose sight of the fact that the teacher may have children. How will they grow without a father?
2. Do you recognize that others will judge you? Relatives, classmates, and educators can blame you.
3. Can you adequately perceive the rejection on the part of the person you like? If you fell in love with a teacher, this does not mean that he will reciprocate.

It is worth noting that in isolated cases the love of the teacher and the student still ends in marriage. However, this is usually preceded by many problems.

If you are a creative person, then you can quite make friends with the teacher. For this, it is necessary to work diligently in the discipline taught by him, to take an active part in the lessons and monitor his appearance. It will not be superfluous to find common interests. If a person is bound by marriage, then you should not provoke reciprocal feelings in him.

Fell in love with the teacher, what should not be done?

• In no case do not tell your experiences to a large number of people. Of course, if you don’t have a “light” without a teacher, then you can open yourself to a close friend. However, make sure that rumors do not spread about the situation.
• If you fell in love with a teacher and he does not share your feelings, in no case do not make fun of him. Behave with dignity!
• Do not start your studies! Try to get only good grades. Otherwise, it will be very difficult for you to enter the selected university. Remember that your future prosperity largely depends on what knowledge you will now receive.
• Do not pursue the object of love. Recall that any of us must have our own personal space. It is impossible to invade it even to the closest people.

Criminal Code

You should not forget about the legal aspect. In accordance with the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, a man is responsible for communication with a minor. Even if a person manages to escape punishment, he will still be fired from his job. In addition, if a student fell in love with a teacher, then the teacher will be condemned by everyone around him.

If you decide to admit to the teacher that you love him, then prepare for the fact that he will most likely reject you. In this situation, only time will help you. Someday your mental wounds will surely heal.

Recall that in any case, you can consider the positive aspects. Even if the teacher rightfully did not reciprocate, your knowledge of his subject will help you enroll in law.

  Well, perhaps, and I will join you)
i'm 15 now, let's start with this)
starting this year, two new teachers have been leading physical education classes with us: S. and A.
well, I'll start with my story)
at first I really liked A. Oooh, you have no idea. I specially walked past him, updated my wardrobe completely, and began to look behind me. but I couldn’t get it at all. he still does not know my name, although he teaches at my class. interest in him began to fall actively, not only because of the lack of attention. his character. I watched him for a month and realized that he was not the person I needed.
my second victim was S.
i saw him for the first time after physical education classes. I was waiting for a call in the hallway between the dressing rooms and repeated English, sitting on a bench. the passage in this corridor was small, and I put my foot forward and lowered my head so that I could not see anything except the notebook in front of me. here. and then I see how something is moving to my left and this smell ... God, it was beautiful. I still remember the smell of his perfume. he stepped so neatly over my leg and leaned against the wall opposite mine. I didn’t raise my head, but then I heard how my classmates communicate freely with him and still raised my head. and at that moment he turned over his shoulder and looked at me. just as I knew. Well, as always, I was embarrassed and looked down.
the bell rang and we went out. I went to take the uniform to the locker room, I go out, and A. is sitting on the ottoman in the lobby with a group of my classmates. they had a heated conversation with him about something, smiling and giggling in places. Well, I went to them to find out what they were talking about. ten seconds later (I didn’t even have time to understand what they were talking about), another physical instructor came up and stood on my side (I was standing near the wall), he leaned on that wall and folded his arms on his chest. I was a little embarrassed and continued to listen to A.'s conversation with my friends. then some devil pulled me to look at a man standing next to me. and what do you think? he was looking at me too. oh fak. I then blushed terribly: D but I was saved from where an unflappable my best friend was and offered to go to class, because there should soon be a call.
on the same day my friend comes up to me and simply begs me to sign up for volleyball with her because she doesn’t want to go one at three o’clock (other girls from our class go to four), because only students from seventh grade go there. Oh yes. Volleyball leads S. Well, with grief in half, I agreed. I signed up without any problems, but he immediately warned that he does not remember the names well. The first training went fine, but he appointed the second at four o’clock and I and I were engaged with my girlfriend .... and oh fact, I better not come. he spent an hour paying attention to one girl from the eighth grade. "Zhenechka, then" "Zhenechka, this." horror. but still he paid attention to me. we stood in a row. this Zhenya, he, I, my girlfriend and others. We threw balls in the opposite direction. I was just waiting for my ball to arrive. iii ... this ball flew right into S.’s hands. Well, not really, he strained himself to catch him, but nevertheless he caught him. turned to me and said: "need a ball?" and still smiling like that ... oooh. me: "yes, thanks." he: "please." and turned back to this wife. my girlfriend heard all this and afterwards said that it looked very nice)
for the next lesson, he finally learned our names. this is such an achievement, I tell you) he repeatedly praised me in training, asking if I had studied before, because it works out well.
a friend who communicates well with A. told me that A. and C. are peers, but I would not say. S. is older than A., it is visible. although who knows. A. has two higher educations and he plus VDVshnik. my friends say that A. is 23 years old (he told them so), but the girl from the 11th grade said he was 20. He can only guess about his age, because he does not want to talk. Yes, and he doesn’t bother me much, that’s another matter - the age of S.))
in short, this is my story. I’m a very shy girl, and it’s very difficult for me to be the first to start a conversation. so please help me somehow. VKontakte it is, but there is not my last name and the photos are not mine, so I doubt that he will add.
i beg you, answer, do I have a chance with S.?
p.s. guys of my age I never liked and don't like so far.
p.p.s. once, in front of Physra S., a certain lady was looking for. blonde with a model figure. Then it turned out that she was our hourly English trainee. my friend directly asked how she knew S., she only smiled broadly and said nothing at all about "oh, yes, I know him." but she doesn’t even have it in VKontakte friends. his girlfriend? unlikely. about his wife, too, is unlikely, because he does not have a ring, and the photographs should obviously be VKontakte. at least a ring in "home" photos.
please help
and sorry for such a detailed story)