Repeating events in a person's life. Why are situations repeat? How to get out of the circle of repeating situations in life
Do you often become a victim of the nonsense?
An ordinary trifle, which responds to strong physical pain and is unpleasant in essence.
But this is a warning. Sign. "Call". promptTo get out of the brewing global situation.
The lesson that will pass is much harder if we remain blind and blind to the warnings of the world.
Familiar ??
This story will reveal causes of repeating situations, as well as how zakanoz in the heel led to royal life.
Zanoza on my way
I walked with my friend in the forest and suddenly shuddered and stopped from unexpected pain in my leg.
Kolo in the foot so as if a needle or glass was deeply stuck. Zanoz.
I was walking the rest of the stay, carefully stepping on the sock, fearing to disturb the pain in the heel. The first thought: "I'm not going there."
Our conversation went on the topic: "Did you read Nekrasov?" - "No, I do not read anything like that. All men impose to us the ideal how to live, what kind of woman to be to be comfortable to men so that we all turn into Lubash from the novel Marinina "Eternity View" ...
From the side of the interlocutor, there was a categorical rejection of the topic of disclosure of femininity, working with their character and beliefs.
Live as it is. Which was born, such a fit.
I feel that we are not on the way. Although a great desire to "save", open her eyes, show beauty and latitude of vision of life!
And here they joined other sensations. It was an inner squeeze and disagreement, and a burning lump somewhere in the area of \u200b\u200bsolar plexus did not give peace.
At the level of sensations there was a cord from solar plexus to the interlocutor. I feel powerless that I can not express anything to her that she does not want to understand.
She does not look at it from different sides. As if looking into the keyhole and argues that it was in the room and about the life of people in her.
I felt the whole walk, the multidirectionality of perception and desires.
The interlocutor simply "faded" in my field, attracted attention, provoked to a response, simply put, but looked into the eyes.
For her, the forest, according to which we walked, was a room, trees like the walls, and I am her spotlight.
She has desire to assert before me, Be the center of attention to be in demand.
And I chose me as a "demander" and batteries for its activity.
She wishes to show how much it is educated, is valuable as a specialist. What years of training and teaching did not pass in vain.
My goal of the walk was in a grounding, to a mix with nature, the observation of spring in the forest.
Forest as an open space, as a place of power, I wanted to listen not to the voice of the interlocutor, but the singing of birds and the noise of trees in the wind.
It was mine protective reaction to its invasion.
Returning from the walk, I could no longer hear her words, because my daughter sat in my hands and screamed right in the ear.
So she confirmed my feelings and created the background that I needed at that minute to protect.
But I pulled this whole situation myself. And I understood that there is something to figure out. There is value.
Later I figured out and everything fell into place.
"Tails" from the past
Walking on the memories of youth and childhood, I found a few repeats.
I am 15 years old. Republican Olympiad. Everyone is preparing, and only one girl walks from one group to the other with the words "I will not work out" and "I don't know anything." And then I turn on!
It must be saved! Show that she will succeed.
And instead of repeating the material and tune in to the speech, I turned on in her slander, "pulling out the girls in the working condition.
As a result, by the time of the competition itself I was completely without strength, and she seemed to be joined and shone. After the speech, I could not hold back tears.
Full impotence and disbelief. I did not succeed. I knew nothing ...
Even earlier. I am 5 years old, playing with a neighbor girl on the sofa to the store. And she struggles that this product is a dunstrist!
And I have an inside of the same sludge in solar plexus and impotence, I can't prove anything to her. That there is no such number. That there are two hundred thousand three hundred rubles. And there is no doublist.
After long disputes, I'm leaving home exhausted and disappointed that this person does not prove anything, because she does not hear me.
Her desire look more educated, smart, competent. She is also not scyt. She has a teacher's mother.
She knows how to suppress and manipulate someone else's opinion, emotions. She knows how to.
Remembering this event, I saw an energy golden lace from solar plexus, which stretched to my interlocutor.
I am voluntary myself pumped it with my energy. Just signed the contract - they say if you want, take. How much do you need.
Roots from past life
14th century. Germany. I am a young woman 27 years old, Isabella.
On me a long velvet burgundy dress, top of him a brocade golden skirt. All the dress is beautifully embroidered with golden threads.
The head covers a white transparent fabric, crowned with a crown. (Later in Wikipedia I found confirmation with my memories that Isabella Burgundskaya was the second wife of Rudolph of the first Habsburg).
I walk around the surroundings along with my assistants, maids. In the basket we collect flowers and herbs.
I feel young, I do not think about the status. Enjoy nature and female communication.
The woman comes, large, cargo. This is my cormalist, which is still at the courtyard. (I find out your friend from my children's memories, from the current life, where I am 5 years old).
On it a headdress from the twisted fabric, like halfbore, rod. Noblewoman.
The expression is causing. Falls me with the words that you don't stick to walk with the maids and engage in such matters. That my place in the castle.
She knows better what I need to do how to live. After all, she was appointed my feeder, an approximate girlfriend of my mother. She wants to show his superior in any situation.
She hurt me, I myself connect to the dispute and give her my energy.
It looks like a well with a wooden bottom, and I am a water mill, which she twists and my water is filled itself.
In the future, she spins intrigue, dismisses gossip and seeks to take my place.
The king is bored with the courtyard at the courtyard, and he refers it to a distant village in his possessions and she agrees alone.
Is there a way out?
After folding all the memories together, I realized a lot.
FirstlyI myself pulled these people in my life to understand and realize the value of my borders. And express love for yourself through their saving.
SecondlyThese are these people - my mirror and tip. At the heart of these situations is pride. Both in my interlocutors and in me.
Otherwise, I could not see what is not in me. It's like two young cockerels met and prove each other who is more beautiful and stronger.
It was a lesson of the soul - Remove your pride and find a right decision. Zanoza became a clear reminder that I was devoted from the intended path. I go there.
Thirdly, a big resource is not to spend your time and energy on such people. Moreover, "salvation".
Because the idea of \u200b\u200b"her save" also follows from pride. After all, I know what you do not know. I live as you can't. And you can not guess. And here lies "The path is not there."
FourthI realized that in such situations the strongest tool is humor and honesty.
In a situation of past life, if from the first moment I met her outrage with a joke and a smile (read, with love and without pride), everything would have forced a dramatically different way.
The alternative was that this woman would fulfill his master the teacher for me, got married, went to another city and would become the managing handicraft manufactory.
In a situation of childhood, there would be a replica "This is a fantasy store, therefore prices will be such as we will come up."
In school interaction, the joke would also put everything in its place and took off the tension.
And in the most recent situation on the words of the interlocutor "I have arrogance to invite you for a walk" My answer-failure to joke would be appropriate.
Listen to myself, no offering and there would be no. But because of her, valuable awareness occurred and the lesson was passed.
Sometimes the zanoz leads to the memoirs of royal life. And this is a very exciting and interesting investigation!
Three vampire
In the process of writing the article, several alternative names appeared. One of them is the story of three vampires. This refers to, of course, energy.
But this option left because there is still some kind of vision.
Energy vampire is lacmus paper of our love to yourself, intrinsicness, preservation of internal borders.
If he is next to you, then pay attention to my reaction. It is important not so much the situation, but your reaction to it.
Moreover, if the situation with such people is repeated, it means that your lesson is not passed and requires rethinking.
And even, relating to people to this category - energy vampires, - we are the easiest to feed our pride.
I reveal her even more. Like, she is such a sink, wrong. A man pulls energy from the others because the victim, or the aggressor, or the user.
In fact, this man at some point lack love. From mother, from father, from friends, society.
First of all, and went to look on the side. And finds ways and ways. And those who climb on this hook of their pride.
But the best manifestation of love from you will resolutely get out of the field of this person, so that he finds the source of force in himself.
Did you meet with this situation when unpleasant situations are repeated periodically? What do you think it depends on, from fate or from the actions of the person himself? Often after such situations, a person begins to visit thoughts, and he begins to leave his comfort zone, start developing, and not degrade.
Repeating events, this is a sign that a person has not passed and did not understand some life lesson. He can not . It may be that we ourselves create repeating unpleasant situations in their lives by their behavior and their thoughts.
Look at yourself in the past and you will find that despite the fact that you are changing and developing, by and large you are exactly the same as you were 10, 20 or 40 years ago. You have the same character, the same reaction to events.
We live in our scenario of life, according to our picture of the world and are afraid to go beyond their convictions and programs. Every year, people hope that next year they will be lucky and in life, something will start changing for the better. Look at your life, at least for the last 10 years. Your life has become better? Most people have no better.
So that it becomes better, you need to change something in your life, in your thinking and in your actions. Want changes, you need to leave the comfort zone and do something new.
What affects repeating events?
To get something new, you need to go beyond the familiar life and our subconscious programs and make. This will make new results. It should be noted that they can not always be the results that you need, but this is the new life and destruction of old templates. We live knowing this world, we are developing and learning in this physical world.
Living in your zone of comfort, we stop developing, and life begins to resemble the swamp with a bad smell. Constantly make steps in a new and uncharted and from life you will receive new gifts.
So, to break a closed circle of repeating events, it is necessary:
- Take yourself, other people and this world as they are. Accept and love. It will very well affect not only fate, but also on health.
- Change your life. Go beyond your usual life and familiar action. Take steps in the uncharted zones, get acquainted with new people, do not do since always. Your life, this is a set of rules invented by someone. Create your rules and involve people in your life, and not play for someone else's rules.
These 2 steps will take you out of the usual life and give the course of new events. Also a vicious circle can be broken by way and receiving answers from it.
While your reaction to events will be the same, they will be repeated.
I wish you new nice changes in your life! Yours faithfully, .
Did you think about why certain events happen to you? And some and more than once! Why we get into the cycle of repetitive events? Does it depend on ourselves or is it fate?
You got a new job about which I dreamed of. Full of enthusiasm, ideas. You think that now you finally found our place for a long time, but ... at some point you want to quit everything and leave. What are you doing. It takes time, you find a new job. Everything goes great, you think: "Well, this is exactly mine. It was about this that I dreamed. " Life is filled with meaning. You are happy to fly in the morning to work, ready to turn the mountains ... and in time again go away. And this situation is repeated not one and not twice. You understand that you go in a circle.
Or in relationships with men. You are found men exclusively one type. Although you can't say that this is your type of men. And you see that this man is basically the same as the previous one, but you again build a relationship with him. And then you reproach yourself that "stepped on the same rake."
Familiar situations? Yes, and I took them not from my head. The first cyclical happens with my friend, and the second is with me.
And how many stories about women who are married to alcoholics several times? Or people who are always in debt: And only giving the last debt, come back in an even greater. Or girls who always betray guys. Yes, such stories can be remembered.
And if you look at your life? Surely, if you think, you also pursue certain situations and problems that repeated from year to year, from relationships in relation.
Did you think if there are communication in these repetitions?
I - no, until once again did not come to my rake. Then I visited this question. Why is everything going on? Why can't I get off this path? With this question I climbed on the Internet. There I found a lot of information on this issue and a lot of explanations of such events. So…
Why is this happening?
Fate
Of course, everything can be explained by such a common explanation. Like, fate I have such. So I will run all my life in a circle. Change there is something not in my power. It is necessary to accept and further "carry your cross."
Fate? Maybe. No one argues, but why did you get so fate? This is a question.
So there are circumstances
And immediately the question: why do they fold exactly what you have? Yes, and with such enviable constancy. Of course, this can be explained by many things. But only think how many events (circumstances) should be in a certain way that you, for example, turned out to be in a certain place at a certain time. And such circumstances should be for at least one thing!
But here again the question: what led you to this place?
Your choice
"How can I choose what I don't want?" - Immediately ask you. That's how.
Every day you are encountered with a bunch of questions that require choices. Maybe insignificant, but still .. from what decision you will accept in a certain situation - may somehow have a further life. It seems to you that some small decision can not affect life in general? I dare to assure you - maybe!
If you submit your life by a web in which each individual thread is an option where to go, then every your decision made, even if it is small, - leads you in a certain direction. In fact, the human life web is very extensive.
And depending on our choice - we can appear in some specific places. But I appear in some given place and this situation! I wonder why?
Life gives a lesson
Israeli clairvoyant and psychologist Goldie believes that the purpose of our life to work out its complexes, fears and karma. Problem and unpleasant situations will be repeated in your life as long as you do not dare a lesson. At the same time, situations will deteriorate every time if nothing to change.
That is, certain events occur in our life in order to teach us something.
Originally from childhood
"The most important thing is laid in childhood," any psychologist will tell you. And in this position a lot of truth. Indeed, much in the character and in the fate of a person depends on the events and experiences of his childhood. The child is born in a certain family, with certain areas and relationships inside the family. And the growing, it unconsciously begins to memorize, what should be between mom and dad, with other people, attitude to work, health, some principles.
Remember how children play. How they speak with dolls, what situations they lose. If you watch the child's game, you can see your family and yourself from the side of the child.
So the most repetitive events can be firmly connected with our childhood. At some point, the brain decided that everything should be so. And since then, our actions "are processed" to create just such situations. Is it possible to change and overload your program? Of course yes. It is important to sort out yourself, to identify it and change it.
Life - Reflection of you
Anatoly Nekrasov is a psychologist, a philosopher, a leading specialist in the field of family and interpersonal relations, has its own point of view on repetitive events.
According to him, life is a copier who reflects everything in man . And therefore, the reasons must be sought in themselves. A man attracts into his life what inside it.
Here is one of the quotes of his books:
"Search by" horizon "begins when a person stops moving inside itself. Most often, when a person ceases to work on himself and over his relationship, he begins to move on a more "light" way - to find a more suitable half in his surroundings. In this case, it is almost impossible to find half. The world will lead a person from halves in every way, creates many difficulties in relations with the opposite sex. , again and again pushing a person to the disclosure of their best qualities, to the manifestation of increasing love " (Anatoly Nekrasov "Half").
Is it possible to get out of a closed circle and go to a new level?
As a rule, a person aware of his problems when they have already achieved incredible scale. Or when the situation repeated a very large number of times. Why is that? We live unconsciously in most of our lives. That is, in order to understand and realize the problem, it is necessary that this problem "hit" you on your head with an incredible force. Then, when it seems that life is destroyed and change nothing. Many and continue to live like that. Complaining fate and without seeing exit.
But there are units of people who begin to dig in themselves. And look for answers to the question: why is everything going on? Why does this happen to me? Can I change something?If so, what you need to do.
Again, many still stop at this stage of questions. Either, finding a bunch of useful information on the Internet, begin to implement everything in your life.
To break this closed circle is possible. In the language of psychology, fate is called a life scenario. All events taking place in your life, installation, beliefs, fears, habits - forms our life web. And realizing that it is standing for those or other situations by changing it within itself you can change your own life.
I will not describe you any techniques or technology sought from the Internet. Or tell "the only right decision." It is not in my competence. What you read this article already says that you started looking for ways to change yourself and your life.
Changes are not safe!
Any change paves the way to other changes.
Nikcolo Makiavelli
I am very worried about the question: "How will my changes affect others? And whether people have changed around me? " The answer will be like this: "100% yes, change." But how to change - this is the second question.
As a substantiation of your answer, I will give the experience of one of my friend. She had very difficult relationship with her mother since childhood. And as she says, her mother inflicted her all psychological injuries, which could only be caused to a child. When this woman was fascinated by the psychology and began to change his life and herself, her relationship with her mother was changed. Carefully. And she explains it all quantum physics.
Yes, yes, it is physician. According to the laws of quantum physics, if two particles were at least an instant in contact, they hold this information. And if you change one particle - the other, which has information about it changes. This law of physics can explain much in our lives, but now we are not about "many".
So, the connection with our parents, close, husbands are. Accordingly, our changes will sooner or later affect our environment.
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Life is cyclical. Cyclic pattern concerns total: events, relationships, health. Have you noticed that some situations are fastened with enviable constancy, after a certain time? And some events would like to change. One - from time to times, with similar conditions loses work or money, the other is always married for unsuitable men, the third constantly falls with dependence on situations. This has its own laws. Today we will consider the Law of the 7th Cycle. We will do it through the prism of the human development from the moment of birth to the culmination point - 7 years.
Seven years is a cycle of consciousness and its own identification. This means that up to seven years a person has the key concepts about their "I". In psychoanalysis, Z. Freud up to 7 years old, the child passes a number of phases, which determine its further behavior and laid the most important features of the personality and ways of response. And here you will not argue with Freud.
The seventh year is the result, which determines our personality and forms aspects of our identity, ideas about themselves, their sexuality, its value, relationship, potential, confidence, relationships, confidence. The process ends, which was formed in early childhood. What we leave from this cycle, has a significant impact on our future. It is at this age that our relationship is laid - family, friendship, colleagues.
Comable example: the child does not receive traditional maternal love with heartiness, tenderness, caressing, love, compassion. Relationships with the mother add up through the punishment system: Hat, caused discomfort - scored. And now "downtired" now - this is the expression of love. In adulthood, this person will do everything to get his own version of "love." He will hurt, "lean" - it should scold him. For him there is no tenderness, caress, care, "together under a blanket watch a movie from cocoa in hand", "naked to the ocean at sunset holding hands", "look at the stars, hugging". He is waiting for punishment and does everything to get it. Naturally, the personal life of such a person can not be happy, because we are happy with others as much as happy inside ourselves. An unhappy person will be unhappy with anyone.
So we attract events in our life, people who will always open our injuries, because our goal is always to get rid of fear and pain and become free and respectively.
People grew up in a shortage of love can not build a full relationship, because love for them is anything: attention, scandal, encouragement, even punishment, but not what it really is.
There are many examples. And you need to understand this: after birth, the connection is extremely important, which is established between the significant adults and the child. Among other things, the nature and attitude of the first significant adult forms the depth image of the highest strength - God in the life of a person. If he is strict and punishing, then God is the same in the representation of a person, if a guarding and supporting, the man builds his relationship with God in the same way.
Very important at this time touch and love that surrounds the child. It is necessary for its physical and emotional development. This is a base for confidence in people, God, life and ability to build full-fledged close relationships, and at the same time install their borders.
"If the mother does not give the son of confidence and love, then becoming adults, he begins to revenge. The Scriptures say: "Mother can create God, and maybe a demon. She writes fate on his forehead of his child. " What gives the mother to the child in the first three years of life becomes the fundamental basis of his character. In the next four years, up to seven years, the second stage of influence occurs.
Many parents become not teachers, but shelter, protection for a child. When parents act as a shield for a young man, his own protective body does not work. "
Yoga Bhajan, February 10, 1993
Every 7 years (7.14,21,28 ... ..) Our consciousness changes, our values \u200b\u200bchange, we carry out the compass to make sure that we are moving in the direction that our destination is. It carries great changes to our life. And if for the period we get rid of injuries, cleaning the subconscious, then we become the owner of your life. Events are no longer repeated. This is called - a person has changed karma. Every seven years have a new energy that allows you to refresh the lens through which we look at life. After 7 years it is difficult to live with false reality and ideals created in a secret collapse by our subconscious, false eg and emotions. What we considered the absolute truth is melting and dissolved as a mirage.
Our task is to go beyond the boundaries in which the patterns define our shares and reactions on the basis of traumatic experience up to 7 years. And sending efforts, in fear, drama and injury, freeing the energy that froze in orvening years and is now a factor determining the destructive behavior. We are worthy of all the best and there is no limit. By the right of birth, we possess everything: health, love, prosperity - all this comes from the light of our soul. And we need to remove everything from the subconscious, which flashes and limits this light.
The crisis of the 7th summer cycle also works in relations. Every 7 years, the union is waiting for the test, as it has come to revalve the values. And if two pass his leaning on the light of the soul, the compassion and the love he gives, the Union is maintained and passes to a new stage of development, whether family, business or friendship.
We are in Kundalini yoga using the meditation of the edge aimed at the intention of this period. But you need to remember that all the practices of Kundalini yoga work to clean the subconsciousness, and whatever you do it leads you by conscious healing itself. Exercises are prepared by the body, cleaning channels and meridians, moving mental energy, meditation cleans the mind and subconscious, and pranayamas are activated, collected and guide the energy that is necessary for change, for action.
The most effective in addition to the edge of Gong and White Tantra, in the tradition of Kundalini yoga.
Cardishly your Harman Kaur Grishin Ekaterina. Academy Kundalini Yoga St. Petersburg 2015
