Omar Khayyam is better to starve than. "Splash" vs "It's better to be alone than with just anyone": which strategy is better? Eternal quotes from the great poet and one of the most famous oriental sages and philosophers

The image of the great poet of the East Omar Khayyam is covered with legends, and the biography is full of secrets and mysteries. The ancient East knew Omar Khayyam primarily as an outstanding scientist: mathematician, physicist, astronomer, philosopher. In the modern world, Omar Khayyam is known more as a poet, the creator of original philosophical and lyrical quatrains - wise, full of humor, cunning and audacity rubai.

Rubai is one of the most complex genre forms of Tajik-Persian poetry. The volume of the rubaiyat is four lines, three of which (rarely four) rhyme with each other. Khayyam is an unsurpassed master of this genre. His rubies amaze with the accuracy of observations and the depth of comprehension of the world and the human soul, the brightness of images and the grace of rhythm.

Living in the religious east, Omar Khayyam reflects on God, but resolutely rejects all church dogmas. His irony and free-thinking are reflected in the rubaiyat. He was supported by many poets of his time, but because of the fear of persecution for freethinking and blasphemy, they also attributed their works to Khayyam.

Omar Khayyam is a humanist, for him a person and his peace of mind are above all. He appreciates the pleasure and joy of life, the enjoyment of every minute. And his style of presentation made it possible to express what could not be said out loud in plain text.

On the one hand, I always say that it is worth building a relationship only with a person with whom you are comfortable. If in a relationship you have to endure, educate, bend, manipulate - all this suggests that these relationships are toxic, and their participants are deeply neurotic people. But on the other hand, there is also the other side of the coin, when all the guys are not good enough for a girl and she breaks off relationships over and over again at the very beginning, because she is sure that she will find someone better. Let's see what's the matter here.

Of course, everyone wants not to drink, not smoke, and always give flowers, to be decent, wealthy, promising, charming, with a sense of humor, caring, courageous ... And who would argue, it's better to be healthy and rich than poor and sick. But it's all "from the head." This is a calculation.

The problem is that no one has ever loved anyone for a particular merit. No one will tell you, "I love my husband because he doesn't drink or smoke." Or: “I fell in love with Vasya when I found out what his salary is.” Dignity can be respected, admired, but not loved.

Nevertheless, many girls prefer to build relationships on the basis of calculation, because they were disappointed in love. Well, they did not meet their love. And they decided that there is no love. Because it's already been years, but Herman is still gone. And they say: "I'll meet a good guy, and we'll be happy." But if you talk heart to heart with such a girl, it turns out that there was love in her life. Well, it does not happen that in 25-30 years a person has never been in love. Something just went wrong: he left her, he didn’t want to get married, he treated her badly, something else. It is especially traumatic if there were several such stories. Such a painful attitude is formed: love is suffering, I don’t want to suffer, which means I don’t need love.

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Normal, healthy love, so to speak, will become possible as soon as the girl realizes her problem: for some reason, she chooses the wrong guys over and over again. She is not confident in herself, she grew up in a toxic family, she has complexes - there can be a million reasons. But you have to deal with yourself. A self-confident girl, aware of her needs, respecting her own and other people's boundaries, will definitely attract a person with a similar picture of the world, and they will certainly fall in love with each other. This is how life works: like attracts like. And if aggressors are “nailed” to you over and over again, it means that you need them for some reason, you attract them. Maybe you had an aggressive father, maybe he beat your mother, and this painful family model took root in the subconscious. If you come across indifferent and incapable of empathy chumps, maybe in your childhood love was replaced by provision: well-fed, healthy, there are toys - goodbye, what else do you need. Having dealt with this (perhaps on her own, perhaps with the help of a psychologist), the girl will change her life and find that there are a lot of cool guys around with whom you can build a healthy relationship. And you don’t have to go over endlessly, or worry that you will be left alone.

That is, the very problem of “sneaking through” or “marrying the first person you meet” will disappear as soon as “marriage of convenience is better than love” and “I am obliged to marry at any cost and as soon as possible” are removed from my head.

I will say more: marriages of convenience in the vast majority are doomed to disintegration, if this is not a fictitious marriage by agreement of both parties. In another case, it will be physically unpleasant for one of the partners to share a bed with an unloved person, his voice and smell will irritate him, quarrels will inevitably start, and you don’t want to put up either ... Therefore, first of all, you need to “fix” your ability to love and be loved, and secondly, stop considering all men as potential husbands, start just living.

Now about the "picky". This one is good for everyone, but earns little. And that one over there is rich, but the woman changes like gloves. And this one seems to be faithful and devoted, but lives with his mother. Looking for more. What is behind this? Fear. Fear of relationships as such. Because there is no ideal. This is a collective image with which you fence yourself off from real life. It arises because people are not sure that they themselves are able to build normal relationships with a living person.

How to draw a line between pathology and normality? Everything is simple. Your feelings must match your thoughts. As soon as it happened - bingo, you hit the top ten. That is, in a relationship, you should be comfortable on all levels, from emotional to physical and rational. When you are drawn to a person, but you are aware that he objectively suits you. That it’s not just “I can’t live without him”, but “I want to live with this serious, reliable, decent and responsible man, to whom I am very attracted.”

Will you meet him? If you carefully read the fifth paragraph - be sure.

We all get what we deserve in love. And our partner is always our reflection. How Little Raccoon was afraid of the one who sits in the pond. So don't take the stick. And smile.

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